For whatever reason this morning my Facebook feed was filled with some interesting links to “articles” about Witchcraft. They featured pictures of women with their eyes closed, face frozen in a state of ecstasy and arcane power. Like they know the secrets of the universe and its all moving through their bodies in one giant sexy Witch orgasm that reveals the secrets of the universe by osmosis. And to be honest they are my biggest pet peeve, and you’ve probably seen them too if you are Pagan and have the internet. 9 Reasons Why You Are A Natural Witch. 8 Reason Why Being An Empath Makes You Wolverine. 5 Reasons Why Being Psychic Means You Are Destined to Save the World From the Rapture, and similar nonsense. Harmless right? The problem is I see people accepting these things as legitimate statements about Witchcraft, and statements and images they need to attach to their identity as a Witch. The images attached to these articles are always the same and project a certain stereotype a lot of modern Pagans feel they need to imitate or fit into. I see a lot of folks who feel they need to always project an air of zen harmony, or buy all the “right” Witchy clothes to be taken seriously. They have to be like the women in those picture that have the secrets of the universe whispered to them and are all powerful in their lives. And that is not Witchcraft at all. Sometimes the whispered secrets of the universe shatter you so hard you have to rebuild the pieces of your life as they lay on the floor. Sometimes your best use of your craft as a Witch is when you don’t have all the answers and your life is anything but zen. Sure I have ritual clothes but half the time I do ritual or magick in a T-Shirt and jeans.
Now don’t get me wrong. I like mindless internet fun on occasion too. I’ve done those silly quizzes that tell you what Egyptian Goddess you, or which mystical animal is your Patronus (I’m pretty sure mine is Deadpool, or at very least Xena’s love child with Deadpool). So aren’t these other article just the same thing? At first glance they might be, but how we portray Witchcraft both to the world and among ourselves is important. Because just like words have power images do too. Is this the image of a Witch we want to create and inspire? I think not.
So I thought I’d put together my own list: 9 Reasons Why We Shouldn’t Water Down Witchcraft
1. It Makes Things That Shouldn’t Be Taboo, Taboo:
I’ve talked about declawing war gods, well this is declawing witchcraft - you need the dark too. Hexing, cursing, defensive magick, blood magick, and even warding to some degree are becoming increasingly taboo to talk about much less practice in modern Paganism. These are practices that have been a part of Witchcraft and magick in general from its very beginnings. Sometimes magick is about leveling the playing field and giving those with no other means of doing so to invoke justice or simply defend themselves. If you don’t think ancient people used curses, there is a plethora of archaeological evidence that proves otherwise. The curse tablets found at the temple of Sulis-Minerva are very interesting. All I can say is don’t steal pants in the ancient world, or people will curse your ass. These are all practices that you might not often use but are worth understanding the mechanics of. You might need them someday down the road, or you might be on the receiving end and need to know how to handle it. No knowledge is ever wasted.
2. Love & Light isn’t Balance:
Life is hard. And sometimes it just outright sucks. People go through difficult times and situations. It’s part of living, and if we are lucky we can learn and grow from the darkest parts of our lives. But when we portray Witches as always being in a state of all knowing bliss, it sends the wrong message. It says that being broken is bad, not having life figured out is a failure. It’s not. Not even the gods have everything figured out. The goddess Akhilandeshvari whose name means “Never Not Broken” is portrayed with her body shattered into many pieces. She is constantly reforming, and fitting the pieces back together into something new. When we stigmatize darkness, and try to always be positive we will ignore the gritty difficult things we need to work through in life. Ignored problems, and not solved problems. And our spirituality of choice should foster us through such times. When we teach people it’s not ok to have these emotions people become afraid to show they need help or have life issues.
3. Hard Work isn’t Sexy Buts its Reality:
Master your craft. Mediate every day, do something magickal every day, do daily devotionals, whatever it is. Practice your craft, to master your craft. There is no such thing as 9 easy steps to becoming a Witch. It takes work and time. Being an empath, seeing spirits and visions arent some cool mutant power that doesn’t make you all knowing. From experience, I can say being an empath means you need to really master your skills at energy work. Seeing sprits or feeling the emotions of other isn’t always fun or easy. These are things that can take a lifetime to master, require daily work.
4. Do You Want to Be a Dress Up Witch Or A Real Witch?:
Images of those ecstatic women should not be seen as empowering, sometimes Witchraft is doing what is needed on a dime and on a moment’s notice, it requires practicality and sometimes its done when you are crying and snotting on the floor and a real mess. It’s not pretty, and it’s not supposed to be. You don’t need to look pretty to be a Witch, or have fancy occult clothes and jewelry. Those things can be used to get your mind into a different state, but ultimately you are the source of power that drives your Will and magick. It is you that are speaking to the Gods, not your fancy wand. I like bling as much as the next Pagan but all the bling in the world isn’t going to make you better at your craft. In the end dress up Pagans don’t integrate their spirituality into their life, it’s just to feel good.
5. Being a Witch Isn’t About Being All Powerful, or Always Knowing the Right Answer:
This is kind of a follow up to some of the above points. When our mental image of a legit Witch is based on these images of Witches dressed to the nines seeming zen wisdom from their every pore it attracts followers and students to the wrong people. Because there are people out there who put on that exact image to draw people in. People who want to manipulate others and can be dangerous. The cult of ego is very real and when people put teachers on pedestals, it can be hard to take them off those pedestals when they realize they are just human too; when the cult of ego is harmful and not really about teaching but rather to make the predator feel empowered.
Remember that your teachers are human too, they make mistakes, they aren’t all knowing so don’t expect them to be. Think for yourself, and recognize the cult of ego when you see it. Witchcraft isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about finding them along the journey and making them a part of your life.
6. If We Start Taming Our Craft We Will Start Taming Our Gods:
I’ve talked about this in other blogs and I think to some degree this is already happening. When we shun the darker aspects of life and ourselves we in turn try to make aspects of our Gods less threatening. We refuse to see them from what they are. We can see this with the general taboo nature of dark gods, or gods connected to battle. Just because we are uncomfortable with battle does make Ares any less a war deity. And even if we don’t go off to actual warfare now it doesn’t mean he can’t teach us valuable lessons. It’s only the surface of what he, and other dark, Gods embody. What it does not mean is somewhere along the way Ares was demonized and turned from a god of picking wild flowers into a mean god of war that we can now tame back into his hippy flower picking ways. It’s just not how this works, it’s not how any of this works.
7. Witchcraft Isn’t Something You Do, It’s A Way Of Living:
This is a big one. Being a Witch is something your become, and at the end of the process it’s a part of your everyday life. It’s not an alter ego you put on when it’s the full moon or just on Wednesdays. After all the revelations, mystical rituals, classes, there is a point where you need to run all the threads through your own life and make it your own. The first time you experience ritual or feel the presence of a God can be mind blowing, then the next step is to make it part of the ordinary. You wake up in the morning, put pants on, pour whiskey to the gods, say a daily devotion, go to work deal with your boss, etc etc. It’s not separate from your life.
8. Trivializing Magick Diminishes It:
I find it really surprising when a magickal practitioners is shocked that their magick works, or that dealings with Gods can have consequences. Yes, magick is real. Yes, the Gods are real. Trivializing your magick is a sure way to either not get the results you expected or for you to have spent a whole lot of time and energy shaping you Will and energy to just make it go poof. If you don’t believe it’s real, guess what, it’s probably not going to work that well. After all your beliefs and thoughts are what is shaping it. Trivializing the Gods can have far worse consequences, anything from you realizing how very real the deity actual when your life turning upside down or having them turn their backs on you. No one wants to talk to someone who doesn’t even believe they are real in the first place.
9. Magick Isn’t Attention Seeking:
There is a reason why it’s called occult after all. Magick is between you and the gods, and the forces of nature, spirits, or whatever else you might be connecting and working with. It’s not entertainments, or a stage show. It’s something that should improve your life and your relationships with the world around you. It’s not 9 easy steps, or 9 signs that you are Dumbledore. What is your goal? Why do you want to be a Witch? If it’s to post pictures and memes to either make people afraid of you or envious of you, then you’ll just be the same person you always have been just with a veneer of crystals and arcane symbols.